Friends is all we can ever be, No more, no less
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Someone who will be giving all their time for you. Someone who will be giving up other things just to be with you, just to make sure that you are not alone.
Being important in someone's life is great. It only means that he is willing to do anything for you just to make sure that you are alright.
But let us not fool ourselves, we all know that when a person gives you so much of your time then he doesn't only look to you as his friend. If he skips being with his other friends or even playing computer games just to be around you then that is not normal for friends.
He might be feeling something for you. Something more than just friendship. And if you are cannot return that feelings for him might as well be honest about it.
Guys can accept the fact that you cannot love them back as long as you will be true to it and never take advantage of what he is doing for you.
Be vocal and straight to the point that you cannot give back the love that they wanted. That you are better off as friends.
Either way, that guy will be hurt because he loves you. But it is easier to move on from hearing honest words that to make you feel like there is a chance but in reality there is none.
After being honest about what you feel and they still want to do those things for you then that is the time that you can let them do what they want because you have already cleared the things between the two of you. And it is his choice to do what he does.
A lot of people nowadays are scared to be honest because they are afraid to hurt somebody. Well sometimes we just have to accept the fact that we cannot prevent those pain from happening but we reduce the pain that might happen to them.
source: rogerraker
Be true to what you really feel and don't make false hopes for others who really deserves someone better.
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